How to Wear a Tuxedo: A Step-by-Step Guide for Men
Stephanie Patterson
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When it comes to formal events, wearing a tuxedo is the ultimate way to look sharp and stylish. But, if you’re not used to wearing formal attire, it can be daunting to know how to wear a tuxedo correctly. In this article, I will share my tips and tricks on how to wear a tuxedo, so you can look your best and feel confident at your next event.
Firstly, it’s important to choose the right tuxedo. A classic black tuxedo is always a safe choice, but you can also opt for a navy or dark grey tuxedo for a more modern look. Make sure the tuxedo fits you well, as an ill-fitting tuxedo can ruin the overall look. If you’re not sure about the fit, consider getting it tailored to ensure a perfect fit.
Next, it’s important to choose the right shirt and accessories. A white dress shirt with a wingtip collar is the traditional choice, and a black bow tie in silk is a classic accessory. However, you can also choose a colored bow tie or a necktie for a more modern look. Don’t forget to wear black dress shoes and black dress socks to complete the look.
Choosing the Right Tuxedo
Choosing the right tuxedo is essential to looking good and feeling confident at any formal event. Here are some things to consider when selecting your tuxedo:
Consider the Occasion
The first thing to consider when choosing a tuxedo is the occasion. Is it a black-tie event or a more casual affair? For black-tie events, a classic black tuxedo is the way to go. For less formal events, you can opt for a navy or dark grey tuxedo.
It’s also important to consider the time of day of the event. If it’s a daytime event, a lighter-colored tuxedo or a white dinner jacket might be more appropriate.
Pick the Right Fit
The fit of your tuxedo is crucial to looking sharp and feeling comfortable. When selecting a tuxedo, pay attention to the following:
- Jacket Fit: The jacket should fit snugly but not be too tight. It should cover your rear end and the sleeves should end just above your wrist.
- Pant Fit: The pants should fit comfortably around your waist and hips without being too tight. The hem should hit just above your shoe and there should be a slight break in the fabric.
- Shirt Fit: The shirt should fit well around your neck and shoulders. The sleeves should end just above your wrist and the shirt should be long enough to tuck into your pants without coming untucked throughout the night.
Remember, a well-fitted tuxedo will make you look and feel your best. Don’t be afraid to get your tuxedo tailored to ensure the perfect fit.
Accessorizing Your Tuxedo
When it comes to accessorizing your tuxedo, it’s important to keep in mind the formality of the event you’ll be attending. While there are many accessories to choose from, not all of them are appropriate for every occasion. Here are some tips on how to accessorize your tuxedo:
Shirt and Tie
The shirt and tie are important accessories to consider when wearing a tuxedo. The shirt should be a crisp, white dress shirt with a wing or spread collar. It should be worn with cufflinks and studs that match the metal of your tie clip and belt buckle. The tie should be a black bow tie, which is the most traditional option for a tuxedo. However, if you want to add some personality to your look, you can opt for a colored or patterned bow tie.
It’s important to make sure your tie is properly tied and centered. A poorly tied tie can ruin the entire look of your tuxedo. If you’re not sure how to tie a bow tie, there are plenty of tutorials online that can help you.
Shoes and Socks
The shoes and socks you choose to wear with your tuxedo can make or break your entire look. For a traditional tuxedo, black patent leather shoes are the way to go. They should be polished and free of scuffs or scratches. The socks should be black and long enough to cover your ankles when you sit down.
If you’re attending a more casual event, you can opt for black dress shoes instead of patent leather. You can also add some personality to your look with patterned or colored socks. Just make sure they don’t clash with the rest of your outfit.
Cufflinks and Studs
Cufflinks and studs are small accessories that can have a big impact on your tuxedo look. They should match the metal of your tie clip and belt buckle. Gold and silver are the most traditional options, but you can also opt for black or colored cufflinks and studs to add some personality to your look.
When it comes to choosing cufflinks and studs, there are many options to choose from. You can opt for simple, classic designs or more ornate, decorative designs. Just make sure they match the formality of the event you’ll be attending.
How to Wear Your Tuxedo
Putting on the Jacket
First, I start by putting on my tuxedo jacket. It should fit snugly but not be too tight. The jacket should sit right where my hips start to curve inward, and the hem of the jacket should be up to the middle of my hands. The shoulder seams should sit right above my shoulder curve to prevent the tuxedo from looking boxy.
Next, I fasten the buttons on the front of the jacket. The top button should be just below my collarbone, and the bottom button should be at my waistline. I always remember to unbutton my jacket when sitting down to avoid damaging the fabric.
Trousers and Waistband
Once the jacket is on, I put on the tuxedo trousers. The pants should sit at my natural waistline and be snug but not too tight. They may have pleats or a plain front, and they may have a black silk or satin stripe down the side. I tuck my shirt into my pants, zip up, and clasp the waist button.
Next, I tie my cummerbund around my waist. It should be worn with the pleats facing up and the cummerbund should sit at my natural waistline. The cummerbund should be snug but not too tight, and it should cover the waistband of the trousers.
Tying Your Bow Tie
The final step is to tie my bow tie. I start by placing the bow tie around my neck with one end longer than the other. I cross the longer end over the shorter end and bring it up and over the loop around my neck.
Next, I bring the longer end down and over the knot that has formed in the center of the bow tie. I then take the shorter end and fold it over the center of the knot. Finally, I bring the longer end down and tuck it behind the knot, adjusting the bow tie until it is centered and the loops are even.
Overall, wearing a tuxedo can seem daunting, but with these simple steps, anyone can look sharp and stylish for any formal occasion.
Final Tips
After all the effort you put into selecting the perfect tuxedo, it’s important to take care of it properly to ensure it lasts. Here are some tips for maintaining your tuxedo:
- Always hang your tuxedo on a proper hanger to avoid wrinkles and creases.
- Avoid washing your tuxedo too often, as it can damage the fabric. Instead, spot clean any stains and have it professionally cleaned only when necessary.
- Store your tuxedo in a breathable garment bag to protect it from dust and moisture.
Another important consideration is whether to rent or buy your tuxedo. If you attend formal events regularly, it may be worth investing in a high-quality tuxedo that fits well and flatters your body shape. On the other hand, if you only wear a tuxedo once or twice a year, renting may be a more cost-effective option.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to feel comfortable and confident in your tuxedo. With the right fit, accessories, and attitude, you’ll be sure to make a lasting impression at any formal event.
